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לבך וידך exists to share genuine opportunities for chessed and allow others to take part. Some projects begin with a chair at our Shabbos table; others arise when a family is preparing for a simchah, when an almanah needs continued support or when another practical need comes to our attention.

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activeAhavas Geirim • Family Assistance

Supporting an Almanah — a Giyores — and Her Family

Reb Aryeh passed away following an aggressive illness. Two days after the shivah, his almanah was herself diagnosed. This campaign seeks to relieve the debts and overdue rent carried by the two households while supporting her continuing care.

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Memorial notice for Reb Aryeh Litman, of blessed memory
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Supporting documentation

המלצות

View the original letters supporting and endorsing this family’s case.

The campaign is endorsed by the Badatz Eidah HaChareidis; HaRav HaGaon R’ Yisroel Gans; Rosh Yeshivas Mir, HaRav HaGaon R’ Yitzchok Ezrachi; HaRav HaGaon R’ Shamai Kehat Gross; HaRav HaGaon R’ Avrohom Dovid Levi; HaRav HaTzadik R’ Mordechai Shlomo Brayer; HaRav HaGaon R’ Naftoli Kopshitz; HaRav HaGaon R’ Usher Parnes; HaRav HaGaon R’ Pinchas Vind; and HaRav HaGaon R’ Yitzchok Bistritsky.

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The background

From aliyah to a devastating diagnosis

The Litman family joined the Jewish people together many years ago. Their children later came to Eretz Yisrael to study in yeshiva and seminary, eventually marrying and establishing families of their own.

In November 2023, Reb Aryeh and his wife left Mexico City and made aliyah to be near their children and grandchildren. Approximately three weeks later, Reb Aryeh was rushed to hospital and diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer.

Some of the expensive treatments were not covered by the Israeli healthcare system. Because Reb Aryeh and his wife spoke neither Hebrew nor English, their daughter and son-in-law assumed responsibility for the medical arrangements and the many practical matters surrounding them. This required them to stop working and attending kollel regularly.

Despite the efforts made on his behalf, Reb Aryeh passed away on 8 Av. Only two days after the shivah, his almanah was herself diagnosed with cancer.

The present need

Two households carrying one prolonged crisis

Reb Aryeh’s illness had already left the family with substantial debts. His wife’s sudden diagnosis added continuing medical, household and living expenses before the family had any opportunity to recover.

The daughter and son-in-law spent their own savings and directed every available resource toward caring for both parents. They have continued supporting the almanah until today. During the past year, however, the money raised has not been sufficient to meet the continuing expenses.

As a result, both the almanah and the daughter and son-in-law have fallen behind on their rent. The children are now trying to support two households while carrying debts created through their mesirus nefesh in caring for their parents.

Financial information

What the campaign is intended to address

  • overdue rent for the almanah’s home
  • overdue rent for the daughter and son-in-law’s home
  • debts accumulated through Reb Aryeh’s treatments and related expenses
  • obligations incurred while the children suspended work and kollel to provide care
  • the continuing needs of the almanah’s household
  • treatment-related and other essential expenses
  • enabling the children to continue supporting their mother without placing their own household in still greater danger

The latest figures appear on the official Chesed Fund page because medical, rental and household circumstances continue to change.

Campaign administration

Congregation Beis Yehoshua

Congregation Beis Yehoshua, a Brooklyn-based mosad, is administering the Chesed Fund campaign together with the family. Contributions made through the official campaign links are US tax deductible.

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A message you can pass on

A family in Yerushalayim urgently needs our help. Reb Aryeh and his wife made aliyah from Mexico to live near their children. Within weeks, Reb Aryeh was diagnosed with an aggressive illness. The treatments and care he required left substantial debts. He ultimately passed away on 8 Av; only two days after the shivah, his almanah was herself diagnosed.

Their daughter and son-in-law used their own savings and continued directing everything available toward the care of both parents. The funds raised during the past year have not covered the continuing medical and living expenses, and both households are now behind on rent.

If you are able to help—or to share the campaign with somebody who may be able to participate—it would mean a great deal.

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Official campaign

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Payments through Congregation Beis Yehoshua are US tax deductible. Other payment options appear in the general Donate / Help section.

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With gratitude

May Hashem send the almanah a complete refuah sheleimah, bring stability and relief to both households, and allow us to hear only besuros tovos.

May we soon merit the coming of the Goel Tzedek and the rebuilding of the Beis Hamikdash, במהרה בימינו אמן.

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Why this work is undertaken

Chessed is personal.

Most of these projects did not begin as “campaigns.” They began with a person, a family or a practical need.

Over the years, our home has been opened to yeshiva bochurim from Chassidish and baalei teshuvah yeshivos, geirim, visitors and others needing a place for Shabbos or Yom Tov. At other times, our involvement has meant preparing a wedding or another simchah, supporting a household through a difficult period, arranging food or clothing, or helping somebody preserve a life of Torah and mitzvos under challenging circumstances.

Sometimes the need is financial. At other times it is emotional or practical. It may require time, telephone calls, arrangements, transportation, finding the right person or simply accepting responsibility until the matter is settled.

לבך וידך was created so that friends and others who wish to participate can understand each need clearly and help appropriately.

Who is behind these projects?

We are not a large organisation with staff or an established network of major donors. We are simply a kollel family in Yerushalayim trying, with Hashem’s help, to respond when a need reaches us.

We do not personally know any gevirim (wealthy donors) to whom we can turn. Instead, we approach friends, acquaintances and others who may wish to help, or who may know somebody else who can.

In this way, each project becomes a partnership between ordinary people: one person identifies a need, another contributes, somebody else shares the appeal, and together we are able to provide help that none of us could provide alone. In doing so, the mitzvah of helping becomes yours as well.

Direct your help clearly

Choose a project to support

Because several projects may be active simultaneously, please first choose the project you intend to support. Different projects may use different payment destinations.

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A Place at Our Table — Tishrei 5787

Approximately eighteen Shabbos and Yom Tov seudos, welcoming ten to eighteen guests at each meal—roughly 300 places over one month.

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Supporting an Almanah — a Giyores — and Her Family

Following two devastating diagnoses, this campaign helps an almanah and the children caring for her address medical debts, overdue rent and continuing household needs.

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The Simchah Fund

A standing kupah enabling us to help families make weddings, sheva brachos, bar mitzvahs, brissim and other simchos with warmth and dignity.

General payment options

Other ways to contribute

Please include the project name with every contribution. For the almanah campaign, payments made through the official Chesed Fund links are US tax deductible.

Official payment notice: Donate only through payment details published on libchaveyadcha.org or nl.libchaveyadcha.org. If you receive different instructions, please contact us before sending money.

Project designation: Contributions clearly designated for a particular project will be restricted to that project.

Zelle / Quickpay

35290ys@gmail.com

Dutch bank account

NL31 INGB 0685 7498 86

Israeli bank account

Mercantile (17), branch 746, account 081578646

Cash in Yerushalayim

Please contact us to arrange

US tax-deductible

Congregation Beis Yehoshua (EIN 11-3380149), c/o Schukkmann / Haltovsky — notify us when using this option

You do not need money in order to help

Every person can take part

Giving from one’s own pocket is only one form of help. A person may introduce a need to others, approach friends who may wish to participate, arrange a discount, provide transport, share the project privately with an appropriate group or help with one practical part.

The Vizhnitzer Rebbe related the following during the midday tisch on Parashas Behaaloscha in Moshav Ora:

גיין נאך געלט פאר אידן

איך האב געהערט פון הרה״ח ר׳ ברוך ולצר ז״ל, אז ווען ער איז נאך געווען יונג האט אים דער זיידע הרה״ק בעל אמרי חיים זי״ע געבעטן א סכום געלט פאר א וויכטיגן צדקה צוועק. האט אים רבי ברוך געענטפערט אז ער האט נישט גענוג געלט פאר דעם פארלאנגטן צוועק.

האט אים דער זיידע געזאגט: ״איך האב נישט געמיינט צו זאגן אז דו זאלסט מיר געבן דעם סכום; איך האב געמיינט אז דו זאלסט שאפן דעם סכום ביי אנדערע אידן.״

ווען דער זיידע האט געזען אויף זיין פנים אז עס שמעקט אים נישט אזוי, האט דער זיידע זיך געגעבן א רוף אן: ״אוי וויי, דו וואלסטו מיר זאגן אז דו ביסט נאך קיינמאל נישט געגאנגען פאר אידנס וועגן נאך געלט...״

תיכף ומיד איז ער געגאנגען צו זיין שכן ר׳ יוסף חיים ישראל קימרלינג ז״ל, און זיי זענען צוזאמען ארומגעגאנגען נאך געלט, ביז זיי האבן צוזאמגעשטעלט דעם גאנצן סכום.

Going to Collect Money for Fellow Jews

“I heard from Reb Boruch Valtzer, of blessed memory, that when he was still young, my grandfather, the holy Imrei Chaim, asked him for a sum of money for an important charitable cause.

“Reb Boruch replied that he did not have enough money. The Zeide answered: ‘I did not mean that you should give me the sum yourself. I meant that you should raise it from other Yidden.’

“When the Zeide saw that the idea did not particularly appeal to him, he cried out: ‘Oy vey! You mean to tell me that you have never yet gone out to collect money on behalf of fellow Jews?’

“Immediately, Reb Boruch went to his neighbour, Reb Yosef Chaim Yisrael Kimerling, of blessed memory. Together they went around collecting until they had raised the entire sum.”

The lesson is not that everyone must become a public fundraiser. We need not conclude, “We cannot afford the required sum, so there is nothing we can do.” Sharing a project, making an introduction, arranging a discount, providing transport or helping with one practical part can itself make the undertaking possible.

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Some projects require explanation that cannot responsibly be placed on a public website. You are welcome to contact us before contributing or offering another form of assistance.

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